Our Love & Co. Wedding Bands

Since we are planning our ROM, another important thing besides the location would be the wedding bands. I've already ordered a very pretty and custom-made ring pillow which I will not share now. But it's very garden feel and that is why I would hope that our solemisation venue has a garden feel. 

Anyway, ever since we've decided to get married, I've been wanting a ring from Love & Co. When we were looking around for my proposal ring, Love & Co. was the first shop that we went to and we love the designs there. However, it's a little out of our budget then, or rather the HTB's budget. After that I read somewhere that someone bought Love & Co.'s wedding bands at less than $1k per pair and I think that's quite affordable! Oh well, but that was 2-3 years ago and prices inflated. And so I gotta up my budget for wedding bands and since it's gonna be on our fingers for a long time, I decided to get one that we really like. Hence the decision to step into Love & Co. for a preview first. Was thinking we shall go to the other shops like Goldheart and Soo Kee when they will have promos in the upcoming GSS.

And so the plan today was to watch Iron Man 3 at PS and then head to Love & Co. to see see look look. When we first step into the shop, there were already 2 couples and hence no one attended to us. That's even better cos we can walk around and take a look first. So after all the looking around and questions asking. Here's our selection! It was love at first sight for both of us and we decided to buy it right there and then! It's still within our budget and best of all we can pay it with 12-mth interest free instalment plan using our credit card. That will free up more cash for us as we've just paid our $2k deposit for the banquet 2 weeks ago. 
So yay! One less thing to worry and I shall focus on the solemnisation venue and JP and misc stuffs. :) We will get our rings in 3 mths' time and here's a picture of similar rings as ours from the Love & Co. website.

My ring is like the ring on the right but in white gold while zhai nan's is without diamonds

Solemnisation Venues on 22122013

Ever since we've decided to have our solemnisation separately this year, I've been busy researching and reading forums, emailing restaurants for ROM lunch packages. My ideas have been changing and changing and till now I can't confirm what I want.
From hotels to Fort Canning/Hort Park function rooms and to chinese and western restaurants, I've thought of so many different ideas. I've cancelled out solemnisation at hotels because they are too expensive and my budget is around $2k for the reception plus photographer. So next then would be function rooms in Hort Park, but the room is more like a meeting room which I find it very plain and so not romantic. I even thought of just ROM at the Registry and go off for a restaurant lunch with family. 

Ultimately, I do wish I can have it at my ideal location and it would have a garden feel. But I don't want an outdoor venue cos it is just not practical in Singapore. I don't wanna be drenching in sweat while saying my vows. So that leaves restaurants as the best choice. But there are so many restaurants around and I was really hoping that I can find one with nice interior garden feel.

So here's a list of the restaurants I was considering:

1) Tung Lok Signatures at The Central Clarke Quay

• Pros - Good food and has a balcony with shelter for a "outdoor" solemnisation
• Cons - Might be too hot as our ROM is at noon time and price of the lunch package is expensive

2) Peony Jade Clarke Quay

• Pros - Good food and solemnisation can be done outdoors by the Singapore River or onstage in their restaurant / Price is cheaper than Tung Lok
• Cons - None so far

3) Shin Yeh at Liang Court (under Tung Lok Group)

• Pros - Serves taiwanese food which has a more unique menu than the above 2 restaurants / Indoor solemnisation has a romantic ambience / Price is cheapest among the 3 chinese restaurants
• Cons - Solemnisation area is facing the entrance and passer bys can peep through

4) Blisshouse Theme Restaurant (at The Central)

• Pros - New restaurant with indoor garden theme and very nice decor for photo taking 
• Cons - Need min 35 pax to waive venue rental charge and this will burst our budget of $2k / Food quality unknown

Before I came to know of Blisshouse, I was more or less leaning towards Peony Jade or Shin Yeh. And then last night I happened to surf a website and saw the pictures of Blisshouse. It is so nice! And it's exactly the kind of garden feel I want! And which is not at the expense of us drenching in sweat! I am still trying to work out the budget and maybe do a one time site visit for all the restaurants since they are all within the same area. 

I'll leave you with some nice pictures of Blisshouse restaurant. :)

Updates (10/6/13): We've went for a site visit to Blisshouse and the venue doesn't look as nice as what the pictures shows. On top of that, we simply don't want to invite the min no. of 35 guests as we wanna keep it cosy and within close family and friends only. Worst of all, the lady we were liaising through email for the site visit did not turn up and couldn't be contacted through her HP. Very bad impression of their service. Like can't be bothered and super unprofessional. Therefore I've went on to search for other venues after that. 

We have a date & venue! 06122014!

It's been a while once again and there's so much to update! We've seen our geomancer, David Tong for our AD dates early last month. As we wanna have more time to save and also to coincide with my schooling cousins' holidays, we told David we would like to have our banquet at the end of 2014. And so he came up with a few dates in Nov & Dec 2014. We've chosen 6th Dec 2014 as our wedding date as it's the only day where the conflicting zodiac sign doesn't clash with any of our xiong dis & jie meis. That date is also our 39th month anniversary! (We got together on 6 Sep 2011.) 

Initially we were thinking of doing our solemnisation on the actual day. However, David advised us that overall 2014 (Horse Year) is not good for my zodiac as both clash with one another. Hence, it will be good if we can separate our ROM and do it right by having it this year. After considering all the costs and stuffs, and due to my insecurity and "bantang" ness, we decided to ROM end of this year! This means I got more things to plan and lesser time to slim down! 

Before I go on to talk about the solemnisation plans, I will blog about our AD banquet venue hunt first. Mar/Apr was the period for attending wedding shows. 1st hotel for the year is Pan Pacific Orchard. It's pretty ulu and about 10mins walk from Orchard MRT. Not to mentioned there are alot of foreign workers there at the shopping centres. They only have 1 ballroom which can cater to just 12 tables. The ballroom is newly renovated but there's a weird smell that smells like the carpet has been there forever. Food wise we're not able to comment bcos we didn't manage to taste anything. Saw many couples signed and I was once again tempted. Haha I'm fickle minded! Thanks to the stern zhai nan, he manage to talk his way through to me and I decided to KIV first. 

And in April. we went to Mandarin Orchard just to see see look look. The Imperial Ballroom which look like a theatre took my breath away! It's so unique and suddenly I feel like I really wanna have my wedding   here! But of course, to be realistic, the price for having a banquet there is way out of our budget. However, during the show they did throw in discounts per table and free flow wine perks. After all the discounts, it's still $1.4k per table and we decided that despite the beautiful ballroom and nice food. Here's a few pictures for your reference. Didn't manage to take the imperial ballroom though. 

So after more research and budgeting, we shortlisted 3 hotels and decide to go down to check them out before deciding. They are: 1) Grand Copthorne Waterfront (GCW 2) Novotel Clarke Quay (NCQ) 3) Holiday Inn Orchard City Centre (HIOCC).

We had already signed up for NCQ & HIOCC wedding show so I just have to email GCW to arrange for a site visit. Turns out that even though we missed their Mar wedding show, they have a June show coming up which we'll able to enjoy perks offered even if we sign and confirm now. To me that is really great flexibility as it gives us more time to compare and deicde. So anyways, we went down to GCW and were looking at the Riverfront Ballroom which can cater to a min of 17 tables and max of 20 tables. The events manager is very friendly and is very generous with our requests for additional perks. We manage to negotiate for a package that can match that of NCQ and HIOCC. I was very keen on confirming GCW cos the food is confirm good and ballroom is pillarless with Singapore river view. When we first came for their wedding show last Oct, we already think this is our No. 1 choice. Only concern then was the price per table for a weekend dinner banquet. We also manage to tour all the function rooms and venues for solemnisation if we are keen to have it in the hotel. However, the cost is out of our budget as the package is $2088++ which includes buffet lunch & free day use room. 

Anyway, we didn't wanna make a rash decision so we told the events manager that we will confirm with him again. He gave us a 2 weeks time frame which is great as we were going for NCQ and HIOCC's wedding show that particular weekend. We did go for NCQ's wedding show and the cinnamon ballroom w hich can cater to 16-22 tables is very grand and nice. I got tempted again!! haha..but after considering everything else including the hefty deposit sum of $5k to be made that day..We decided our AD venue shall be Grand Copthorne Waterfront! And here's a picture of the chosen ballroom! More pictures will be taken at the June's wedding show~

      

Riverfront Ballroom